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It’s not easy being the loving mother to a know-it-all boy genius, no matter how cute he looks in a bow-tie. No one knows this better than one Mary Cooper, a.k.a. Sheldon’s mom on The Big Bang Theory and now Young Sheldon (Thursdays at 8:30 pm ET on CTV).

On the latter show, actress Zoe Perry has had a lot of time to think about what being Sheldon’s mother might have actually been like. After all, not only has she played the figure on TV for several weeks now, but her own mother, Laurie Metcalfe, plays the elder Mary Cooper on The Big Bang Theory. This role was obviously meant to stay in the family.

“You really understand the impact that Sheldon’s genius has, not only on him navigating this world, but also on the rest of his family and how they have to adapt to him,” Perry tells us about playing Shelly’s mother. “Like any mom out there she just wants the best for her kids, and she has a child that she doesn’t completely understand–or understand the way he views the world–but knows that he’s very special and extraordinary and wants him to have everything.”

Here are a few lessons we’ve learned from Mary Cooper.

Spread the love amongst your kids

Sibling rivalry is real. Sure, brothers and sisters are a blessing, but man can they mean extra work. There’s always one you feel like you’re not paying enough attention to or neglecting on behalf of another one, and we all know that kids pick up on that stuff. Hard.

“Because Sheldon is extraordinary that can sometimes take Mary’s attention away from others, so it’s a real balancing act,” Perry says. “Every parent could probably relate to that, just that we all try our best and don’t always think we’re doing our best, but my God we try.”

First aid classes aren’t a bad idea

How many new or soon-to-be parents out there have thought about taking a first aid course to help them out in the event that something awful were to happen? Now everyone who actually had the time, effort and money to follow through on those good intentions please keep their hands up.

Sometimes it takes a big shock — like a child choking on a sandwich (or in Sheldon’s case a sausage) to shake up our cores and get our butts in gear with this kind of stuff. Luckily when Shelly had his brush-in with death, Mary was able to keep her cool and get a 911 operator to walk her through it.

Everyone needs a saviour

Even moms like Mary Cooper need to believe in a higher power, whether that be the power of church, the power of meditation or the power of a good glass of merlot once the kids have gone to bed.

As we’ve seen countless times on this series, Sheldon and his powerful mind are enough to keep everyone around him on their toes. If Mary didn’t have faith that God has a plan and everything happens for a reason, she probably wouldn’t be able to cope. The bigger lesson? Everyone needs to practice self-care. Especially challenged moms and dads.

Accept any and all help

Sure, Sheldon’s Meemaw likes to drink and smoke, allows her grandkids to eat candy and tinker with fireworks, and plays fast and loose with the Coopers’ house rules. But you know who else she raised? Mary Cooper. So obviously she knows a thing or two about this parenting business, and can be (somewhat) trusted with the kids.

Despite the different parenting tactics Mary obviously recognizes this, and takes full advantage of her mother’s help when needed. Why? Because even the best parents need help every once in a while, and Mary Cooper is no exception.

Life is easier with your partner on board

We’d be curious to see how George and Mary Cooper met in the first place considering how different they both are — especially when it comes to parenting. From what we know about Sheldon in the present day he didn’t exactly have the best relationship with his pops, but part of the fun of doing a prequel series is going back and seeing how that came to be. Also fun? Seeing how Mary constantly attempts to get George on board with Sheldon’s quirks. We think he’s coming around, in his own gruff way, and that’s got to make life infinitely easier on Mary. After all, parenting is definitely easier as a two-person job.

Patience is a virtue

Okay so we learned this from all the moms and dads out there, but Mary Cooper has strongly reinforced our belief in this one. Children can be trying on any given day, but when you’re trying to explain social customs and norms to an eight-year-old boy genius whose logic is often more inspired than Spock’s, you’re allowed to feel slightly more frazzled than most. Yet Mary seems to keep it together, every single time. That makes her a saint in our books.

Kids will be kids

Here’s the real trick to parenting someone like Sheldon Cooper, at least from where we sit on our cozy couches: sometimes you just have to let your kid be your kid. Whether that means buying him or her a rocket and helping to launch it in the middle of nowhere, allowing your child to wear a bow-tie to school or taking an interest in scientists you’ve never heard of, it’s not about your jam, it’s about theirs.

Actually, this applies to all children. They say kids teach you things you never thought possible… well ain’t that they truth.

 

Watch Young Sheldon, Thursdays at 8:30 pm ET on CTV.