We all agree, communication is key in any relationship, but when it comes to sex sometimes not talking about it is the easier option.
Some women can’t or don’t orgasm during sex. To you we say: talk about it, there are resources out there for you and for your mate. Then there are times when your partner just isn’t getting the job done. That’s what we’re talking about. Or, not talking about.
There are times when you just want to go to bed. Or aren’t in the mood. You’re not a bad person; life happens and you want to show him you’re not against trying. Are you doing yourself a disservice by not telling him what’s working and what’s not? Well, maybe. But look, if it’ll save you from having an argument, sometimes, just sometimes, it’s easier to fake it ’til he makes it.
So how do you fake it convincingly? Here are some surefire ways to convince him he’s got it going on in the love department so you can move on to the next thing.
A couple of “oh, babys,” “yeah, right theres,” and “don’t stops” (even if you want him to) and he’ll feel like a champion.
Moan and groan
Start off quiet with some gentle moans, but slowly (or quickly, depending on how fast you need to wrap things up) get increasingly louder. Pound the mattress for good measure.
Scratch his back, he’ll scratch yours
You don’t need to be a werewolf or anything but digging your nails into him while gasping and groaning will let him know you’re close.
Eyes wide shut
If your eyes are open, he’ll see the boredom/impatience on your face. Shut them and he won’t be able to see what you’re thinking.
Change up your breathing
Mix it up, by breathing like a normal human, then panting a little. Go back and forth between that and he’ll be none the wiser.
Grab the closest inanimate object
And, no, don’t club him in the head with it so he blacks out and forgets what you were doing. Clutch a pillow or the bedsheets, grab hold of your headboard or counter, whatever you need to to convince him you’re almost there.
Arching your back, tensing up your legs and curling your toes will have him believing you are losing all control of your body.
Just tell him
No, it’s not confession time. Just let him know that you’re almost at your tipping point and you need him to finish you off. Now. It’s blunt but it’s better than the alternative.
It ain’t over ’til it’s over
Give him a tired smile, show him and let him feel your body relax, compliment his sexy ways and go take a shower or roll over and go to sleep. Win-win.