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In an ideal world, describing yourself as a feminist in your online dating profile wouldn’t be out of the ordinary. Unfortunately, as a popular Canadian Instagram account is showing, this world still has a long way to go.

@autumn_marr perfectly explains what really shouldn’t be a complicated concept.

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Feminist Tinder, an Instagram account run by 25-year-old feminist (duh) Laura Nowak from Toronto, highlights the rude, disgusting, and downright frustrating messages she and other women receive on the popular dating app when they describe themselves as feminists in their Tinder profiles. Luckily, Nowak’s quick and witty responses make the conversation a little more entertaining than depressing.

Take this subject, for example, who doesn’t seem to recognize his own hypocrisy:

Or this one, who seems to think that feminists can’t be interested in sex:

“As feminists, we hear all the time that we’ve already ‘reached equality,'” Nowak told Huffington Post Canada. “And I think that publishing these conversations proves that, at least as far as dating goes, we definitely haven’t.”

super exciting news: I’m doing a totally fun giveaway when I hit 10k followers. I will be giving away five personalized mugs that you can help design. Ever wanted to sip from a mug that says ‘Interesting. But have you considered shutting up forever?’ or ‘confidence is a fuckboy repellent’? Well now you can maybe. Here’s how it works: 1. Scroll through my page and pick a quote that is important/funny/relevant to you, either in a section of the actual post or the caption. 2. Repost the image with the quote you wanna see on a mug, and tell me how having this on a mug would be empowering to you. 3. Tag me in the image plus use the hashtag #feministtinder10k. 4. I’ll pick the winners based on my favourite mug ideas plus why you would feel empowered drinking from it. 5. You can have the same submissions as other people (as long as your provide your own explanation for wanting it) and you can enter as many times as you like.

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Sadly, men who believe that feminism and casual sex are mutually exclusive are not rare on the Feminist Tinder account.

Sometimes the subjects are concise in their rudeness, which allows for equally simple-yet-brilliant replies:

haha @lesmissy_ slays

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@becks_711 shares this fun example of what happens when you put ‘feminist’ in your tinder bio

A photo posted by hello i am a feminist (@feminist_tinder) on

Not all the men Nowak speaks to are ignorant and rude; there are some that are totally on board with feminism and are equally horrified with what she’s dealt with:

Still, Nowak hopes by highlighting some Tinder users’ ignorance on this matter, it will help shed more light on feminist issues.

“I don’t want women thinking they have to settle for being objectified if they want casual sex, and I don’t want men on Tinder being systematically categorized as creeps,” she told BuzzFeed.

In the meantime, though, Feminist Tinder will keep showing the world why feminists and men on Tinder don’t have to be enemies – no matter how much some people may think otherwise.

The Loop has reached out to Feminist Tinder for comment.