Pamela Anderson has announced her split from professional soccer player Adil Rami with a shocking and concerning Instagram post. The actor, model and activist posted the message early in the morning on June 25, including a black and white image of the couple on the red carpet with an accompanying caption that has fans concerned for Anderson’s safety.
Revealing that the last two years of her life spent with Rami have been a lie, Anderson alleges that the French soccer player was cheating on the Baywatch star. “I was scammed, led to believe … we were in big love? I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life,” writes Anderson.
View this post on Instagram
It’s hard to accept 💔 The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life. He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ? But this is worse. He lied to all. How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this – I’m sure there were others. He is the monster. How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not be wise enough or able to help myself.
“He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters? But this is worse. He lied to all. How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this – I’m sure there were others,” writes Anderson. “He is the monster.”
Anderson also alleges that Rami was abusive during their time together, referencing the National Domestic Violence Hotline and ending her message with the line “How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial and not be wise enough or able to help myself.”
Continuing with her emotional post, Anderson wrote in the comments section “Narcissists don’t change. Sociopaths don’t change. I will run for my life – I have always fought for truth and justice. – this is my worst nightmare – I was not a very jealous person before I met him. I’m happy to know the truth. But it hurts like hell.” Adding that Rami was possessive and controlling, often insisting that Anderson send him pictures and videos of her location anytime they were apart, Anderson said that she was warned to stay away from Rami by friend and photographed David Lachapelle, and that Rami quickly cut Lachapelle, as well as other friends, out of Anderson’s life.
Anderson revealed that she spoke with Rami’s ex-girlfriend, Sidonie Biémont, with whom the soccer player shares two-year-old twins. Writing that she never felt right about dating someone with such young children whom he didn’t often see, Anderson said “I’m glad I spoke to his ex. My God. He lied to her about all too. She’s also in shock and is very sad. It’s the evidence I needed to move on. He can’t hurt us more.” Adding that Rami warned her that the tabloids in France would react favourably to the native soccer player because of his family connections to the magazines, Anderson said that she posted on Instagram to share her own side of the story.
According to Anderson, Rami was persistent in winning her back, sending flowers and notes and attempting to gain entry into her hotel, but he was blocked by security guards. “I have a body guard because he scares me. He has hurt me and threatened me many times,” writes Anderson, who confirmed on social media that she had previously tried to leave Rami “10 times” and is now leaving France.
The actor had a brief cameo on Monday night’s series premiere of The Hills: New Beginnings, which stars her son Brandon Lee, whom she shares with ex-husband Tommy Lee. The actor and model talked about his mother before her appearance, saying “She moved to France when Trump got elected and was like, peace out.”
The celebrity received some much needed support on her social media, including a note from Paris Hilton that read “Love you Pam! You are a beautiful, iconic legend and you deserve the best!” Photographer Luke Gilford also posted a comment, writing “Love you.”
It’s unclear whether Anderson will relocate to the US, her native Canada, or elsewhere, but if her allegations against Rami are true, we’re relieved to hear that she’s leaving France.
UPDATE: Rami has responded to the allegations with an Instragram post of his own. We have translated a portion of it below.
“A break-up is never easy. Pamela is a complete person whom I deeply respect and who has convictions, is sincere in her struggles, and for whom my love has always been sincere. That’s what I want to hold onto. I do not think we should divulge our intimacy, our history, which is out own business.”
“In no case was I leading a double life, I remain committed to preserving an ongoing relationship with my children and their mother Sidonie, whom I have profound respect for. It’s true, I could have been more transparent in this ambiguous situation. That I admit. I am and continue to be faithful to my values and convictions, which are expressed in my work with @solidatirefemmes association, which continues to be strong.”
“I wish for healing and discretion for our families and friends even though I’m hurt and in pain.”
View this post on Instagram
Une rupture n’est jamais chose facile. Comme souvent dans ces situations, l’émotion peut prendre le dessus et laisser s’exprimer des choses excessives. Pamela est une personne entière, que je respecte profondément, qui a des convictions, qui est sincère dans ses combats, et pour qui mon amour a toujours été sincère. C’est ce que je veux retenir. Je ne pense pas que nous devrions dévoiler notre intimité, notre histoire, qui ne regarde que nous. Sur ce point, je tiens cependant à faire la lumière. En aucun cas je ne mene de double vie, je reste simplement attaché à préserver une relation pérenne avec mes enfants et leur mère Sidonie pour qui je garde un profond respect. C’est vrai j’aurais dû être plus transparent dans cette relation ambiguë. Je l’assume. Je reste et resterai fidèle à mes valeurs et aux convictions qui sont les miennes et s’expriment dans mon engagement pour l’association @solidaritefemmes , qui est toujours aussi fort. Je suis fier d’avoir participé à cette grande et belle campagne qui a pu faire connaître le travail exceptionnel de cette association et de ses membres. Je souhaite l’apaisement et la discrétion pour nos familles et amis, même si je suis peiné et blessé. J’espère que vous le comprendrez et le respecterez. Adil