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Call them adult film stars or call them porn stars, either way, James Deen, Milcah Halili, Paris Kennedy, Danny Wylde and Allie Haze are all professionals who make a living having sex. Whether this makes them experts in the area of successful relations is debatable, but there’s no question that their perspectives are unique.

When asked questions about what makes a relationship work, these stars’ answers were thoughtful, insightful and sometimes a little surprising. Sometimes it sounds a little bit like something your parents would tell you, and sometimes, well, it’s sex on camera. Hey, they’re porn stars. What do you want?

What makes two people compatible?

 Response to this question were almost universal. It’s about balance. The yin to the yang. The plus to the minus. Adapting to the other person and being able to see from their point of view. Or, to put it frankly, as per Danny Wylde ,“the ability to stay around that person without being annoyed.” Truth.

How do you rejuvenate a relationship?

Again, opinions across the board were very much in sync. Try new things. It can be as easy as buying some new lingerie or surprising your partner with a handwritten note. It sounds simple; we know it isn’t always, but give it a try. Get out of your comfort zone, even if it scares you.

What’s the key to a healthy relationship?

Communication, communication, communication. You need to talk to each other. It’s true in porn (we hear) and it’s true in life. Be open and honest, and if that hurts, just know that it’s part of the process. And of course, as anyone — including porn stars — will tell you, you need to be happy with yourself first before you can be happy with someone else.

We’re not telling you you need to watch porn stars in action to improve your relationship (though, you do you), but listening to them—well, that might actually make a difference.