Some people think you can tell if someone’s had sex before if their hymen is stretched open. But that’s not the case.
Say it with us:YOU?CAN’T?TELL?IF?SOMEONE’S?HAD?SEX?BY?THE?WAY?THEIR?HYMEN?LOOKS?OR?FEELS— Planned Parenthood (@PPFA) November 6, 2019
def did not think we would be talking about hymens today. or TI
— christine teigen (@chrissyteigen) November 6, 2019
The double standard of the patriarchy is truly insane. Young women are fully capable of making their own informed decisions about their bodies and their sexuality. pic.twitter.com/qJJE4AV130
— Padma Lakshmi (@PadmaLakshmi) November 6, 2019
T.I.’s comments have unleashed a firestorm on social media with people horrified over the invasion of privacy, lack of agency, misogyny, and harmful relationship with sex that the rapper is setting his daughter up for, but on a wider scale, T.I.’s remarks shine a light on the very real epidemic of hymen testing happening around the world.In 2018, the World Health Organization urged countries to ban the practice of ‘Virgin Testing,’ with its practice sometimes leading to suicides or murder in countries where premarital sex results in women being shunned or imprisoned. Just last week, Marie Claire published an investigation revealing that hymen tests are still being practiced in the US, with some physicians surveyed revealing they lie to parents and say the child’s hymen is intact in order to keep their young patients safe from retribution and abuse.As for T.I.’s daughter Deyjah, on Wednesday night she liked numerous comments on Twitter that criticized her father’s remarks.There is an urgent need to unpack on ways virginity as a concept has been weaponized against women from striping away our autonomy to putting our worth into a tiny body part sometimes existent, very often non existent
But TI's daughter is that urgent conversation we needed— Judicaelle Irakoze (@Judicaelle_) November 7, 2019